
To the Black Woman Who’s Carried Too Much, for Too Long
You’ve carried generations.
Not just your own burdens, but the weight of legacies, expectations, survival.
You’ve been called strong so many times,
they forgot you were human.
You’ve been the backbone, the nurturer, the warrior, the fixer—
even when you were breaking.
And still, they asked for more.
More patience. More grace. More silence.
Less anger. Less truth. Less of your fullness.
But you are not here to be their myth.
You are not here to be unbreakable.
You are here to be.
To breathe.
To be soft.
To be seen.
This retreat is not just a place to rest.
It is a place where you don’t have to explain yourself.
A place where your boundaries are honored,
your voice is heard,
and your pain is never minimized.
Here, you are not the only one holding it together.
Here, you are held.
You are sacred.
You are luminous.
You are worthy of ease, tenderness, and joy that doesn’t demand anything back.
Come rest, beloved.
Come unravel.
Come be poured into, for once.
You’ve carried enough.
Let us carry you.